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Nutrition

The Real Answer Is Hiding In Plain Sight.

My hope in these newsletters is to help you find the little tweaks that can make the most positive difference for you.

Nutrition is one of the MOST IMPORTANT areas of opportunity because what you put IN effects everything your body does (metabolism, thinking, energy, mood, vibrance, immunity, poop...😁) Everything!

Did you know selenium, zinc and iodine support healthy thyroid function?

Most of us have heard that vitamins C and D, zinc and elderberry boost your immune system.

According to commonly cited hydration research, even a 2% drop in body water can impair short-term memory, focus, and basic cognitive tasks. And a significant portion of people have a blunted thirst mechanism - meaning what feels like hunger may actually be dehydration.

There's a massive amount to know about nutrition - and once you start paying attention, it can feel like drinking from a fire hose.

And even if you do know a lot, what works for one woman, barely moves the needle for another.

We've drifted off course chasing the flashy ingredient, the trendy hack, the study that promises to change everything... Meanwhile, the fundamentals sit there - quiet, unglamorous, and wildly effective.

It just so happens that one of my favorite people in the world happens to be a Registered Dietitian.

Kelly Harrington and I were on the track team together at the University of Idaho 34 years ago. When I first moved to Denver back in 1999, Kelly and I were roommates.

She's brilliant, grounded, and practical. She's also a LOT of fun.

Kelly has had great success helping women with their nutrition so I asked her to share what she believes matters most.

GIRLS! Listen.

Two statements come to mind here.

  1. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results, and
  2. "Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The WISE man learns from the mistakes of others." ~ Otto von Bismarck

I want to get your minds right. This might not seem flashy or mind-blowingly NEW, but read it with the knowledge that IT. IS. THE TRUTH!

These are the most important things you should be paying attention to. FAR more important than any secret ingredient, miracle pill or new flashy secret.

Let's Prepare - the warm up

Blood sugar stability is foundational.

Women are especially vulnerable to blood sugar swings during hormonal transitions, chronic stress, and sleep deprivation. In other words - motherhood.

When glucose and insulin are unstable, everything downstream is affected: mood, energy, cravings, inflammation, and long-term cardiovascular health.

Many women under-eat protein, particularly earlier in the day. As estrogen declines in perimenopause, glucose tolerance worsens, making blood sugar balance even more critical.

Add chronic cortisol elevation that can come with caregiving, and you have a perfect storm for dysregulation.

Stable blood sugar should be priority #1.

Meet your foundational nutrient needs.

Kelly consistently sees gaps in Vitamin D, Omega-3, and magnesium.

Chronic stress increases magnesium demand.

Low omega-3 status correlates with mood disorders.

Vitamin D3 levels are often suboptimal, especially in winter months. Testing is ideal when possible. Pair D3 with Vitamin K2 for proper balance.

A high-quality multivitamin and mineral supplement can help fill gaps - but food first, always.

Protect your nervous system.

Sleep, stress regulation, and restoration are not luxuries. They are metabolic requirements.

If you are constantly depleted and operating in a sympathetic (fight or flight) state, digestion, blood sugar regulation, and hormone balance all suffer.

You can not out-supplement chronic stress.

Prioritize Gut Health.

Daily fiber diversity is critical.

Adequate fiber supports:

  • Estrogen metabolism
  • Detoxification pathways
  • Microbiome diversity
  • Immune health
  • Brain Health

Aim for 30+ different plant foods per week. Vegetables, fruits, herbs, beans, lentils, nuts, seeds, and whole grains all count.

Build meals that work for you!

At every meal, include:

  • Protein
  • Healthy Fats
  • High-fiber carbohydrates

This combination minimizes blood sugar spikes and keeps energy (and cravings) stable.

And then there are the basics we all know, but often ignore:

  • Sit down to eat (and ideally do NOTHING else while you eat)
  • Hydrate
  • Take rest when needed
  • Schedule alone time
  • Do something daily that lights you up!
  • Set boundaries
  • Stop putting yourself dead last

Let's Work - the exercise

Moms are often the CEOs of everyone else's health while quietly running on fumes themselves.

But your physiology does not care how selfless you are.

Your hormones, nervous system, and metabolism respond to inputs - sleep, stress, nourishment, hydration - whether you acknowledge them or not.

Stop searching for the magic pill or trick that will give you the steady energy, clear mind, emotional resilience, and long-term vitality you desire.

You don't need more sexy hacks.

You NEED to master the basics. Consistently!

Foundations aren't exciting. But they win. Every. Time. Build there first, and the "extras" actually have something solid to stand on.

Kelly and I recorded a fun conversation regarding her practice and something unique she uses called Human Design to help her clients. You can listen to (or watch) our conversation here.

I am your enthusiastically imperfect, solution-seeking friend, & we are continually learning together.

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